Stupid stress

[-Irwin Girl-]

Okay well my friend(we will repersent her as R) R is like depressed..like she needs to get help seriously.Her parenst are emotionaly abusing her(i dont think its as badas she makesit out to be) and shes just so stressed because her parents expect alot out of her.Well also the horses she really likes(willbe repersented as ITS) ITS is for saleand shes all ohno lifes gonna end.And she thinks i should giveher adive!She is notindependant and cannont think for herself!Shes so negative it bothers me!!!!!My friend agrees that she needs help or soemthign cause shes very depressing and depressedf.I wish shed just bepositive instead ofsaying oh this happened and oh my parents said this!She is so oh I cant dothat and i cant do that i dont like this i dontlike that.Its a pain in the butt!Also she says itsso horrible but if its so bad shed be moving out when she turned sixteen not syaing oh its jsut another birthday.

And a downside to ym life other then my BFF beign depressed is i cant move out till im 18!!!!!!!!!b/c otherwards the people im forced to call my parents would get my horse..it sucks BIG TIME.

[[J u m p r g r l ♥]]

Aw i'm sorry. :-\ That realy sucks about your friend, i'm sure she'll get over ITS being sold and everything will be back to normal soon!

[Cassie]

Your friend has the exact same attitude as me. You need to realize that her being negative probably isn't just because she feels like being a brat. I'm very negative and its EXTREAMLY hard for me to think positive. When I try to be positive it just takes so much out of me, its so hard. It literalyl takes all my energy to be positive, its not worth it. Maybe thats how she feels to. You can't change the fact that shes a pesimist(sp).

My advice to her would be deal with it. Either get some help or shut up. I know I sound incredably harsh but honestly, theres nothing you can say to her to make her stop being depressed.

[-Irwin Girl-]

Thats the attiude me and my unlettered friend is get over it but shes so depressing that it makes other poeple depressed!She needs help.
And Cass Iunderstand shes a pesimis(sp) and thats what she does but she makes everyoen else just wanna leave even though we love her.She needs help and shes so needy.She always want people to feel sory for her(i personally think so) amd it a pain.Everyone else hides thefact ehre having abad day but she makes usre everyone knows.And Cass its kinda hard to suck it up and deal with it when its depressing me and its kinda sad when she ruins my day because she is being so d@mn depressing.It wasntbad but nwo that my lifes gained even more stress its liek I cant take it anymore.And if i told her to shut up itd make it worse and then shed go complain to the unamed friedn(yeah its pk) and then pat would wonder why i was acting like a b!tch all of a sudden..and if i say get some help that brings up a whole nother depressing story.

[Cassie]

I wasn't implying that you suck it up and deal, I think thats what she needs to do. To me it sounds like she craves attention. Maybe try not to feed her need for attention. If shes angry or sad about something stupid just ignor it. Everytime she complains just be like "oh ya...". You could also try talking to her parents and get them to get her help since it looks like she wants the attention more than the help.

[-Irwin Girl-]

ohhh..stupid me.Anyways she hates her parents and im not comfortable with them so talking to them wont work and i do basically ignore her//litterally avoid her almost.

[FreeStyle08]

she sounds like my grandma always wanting people to feel sorry for her and always saying how this is horrible and that isnt right. so I will find something for her to do that I know will be a little bit hard (like to figure out) and then I would leave making up an excuse to get out of the house and i will come in a few hours later and then I will come in and shes out of that mood but I still wont feed her the attintion and I will start a project (like homework) and basicly tune her out unless she asks for help or something.