~♥*Ren*♥~
Greenie
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Post by ~♥*Ren*♥~ on Jan 17, 2008 20:59:08 GMT -5
Hi Guys! I'm back, and I'm going to try and stay active!<333 You guys are way better than RU! I missed you guys. Anyways here's the story: Okay so I really like this guy, his name is Zach and I told some of my friends about him and then I heard that he found out that I like him, so I was like crappp. So I was starting to get really pissed off and so I did a really stupid thing and asked him who told him. Well I don't think anyone told him and when I asked him, that pretty much gave it away. The people he said told him were two of my best friends and I'm pretty sure they didn't tell.. Anyways... I have been flirting with him a lot and he's always returned the flirt some how. He always points his toes at me and if I look at him he looks at me, and sometimes it's the other way around[he looks at me]. Well he told his friend Austin and he's been giving me a hard time about it. Like in Science the other day, he's like "Ooh, you like Zach!!" and then yesterday in Geography when we were in the computer lab typing up a report, the bell rang and I was getting ready to go and Zach was just about to go out the door and Austin pointed at me and Zach and made a heart and Zach was like "Ew! Nasty!" Well then today Zach completely ignored me. He wouldn't talk to me at all or make eye contact with me. I don't know what happened. When I was in the hall with my friends he asked if anyone had a quarter, I said I did and he just kept on walking. Well I went up to him to say it again(in case he didn't here haha) and he just looked at me and ignored me. I have no idea what happened? I was just wondering if you guys think he likes/still likes me or doesn't like me, or what? Thank you in advance!
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Post by Mia on Jan 17, 2008 23:03:06 GMT -5
Welcome back!!!! We missed you a ton!
Well it sounds like he's being pretty immature about this(i.e. ewww nasty). The way that he liked and flirted with you one day, and then ignored you the next is kinda weird and something must have happened in between then. It could be that his friends found out he liked you, and they started bugging him about it and so now he pretends that he doesn't. I don't know thats just a guess. But, one thing that I have found out over the years is that you can't always trust your best friends. I'm not saying that they told him, but they could have. They could have thought they were doing you a favour by setting you two up, and so they told him that you like him. Or it could have slipped out. Otherwise, how would he know? I don't really tell people who I like anymore unless they don't know them because I have found out that it often means trouble. hahaha Anyway, I honestly don't think that he's the right guy for you, I mean come on. If he's acting like this around you now(liking you one day, ignoring the next) what's he going to be like if you guys are going out?? He's really confusing, and seems to change his mind quite often! I'd say, ditch him and find another guy!! hahaha What ever happens, we all love you! Hope I helped a little, Mia <333
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-Irwin Girl-
Yearling
Pats lil Girl♥Gis' lil wonder child
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Post by -Irwin Girl- on Jan 18, 2008 7:15:44 GMT -5
you already have my adivice that to msn, but you knwo I love you and mia gave basically the same thing:)love you beautiful.
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Post by ~♥Jesus Freak♥~ on Jan 18, 2008 14:07:03 GMT -5
Ok... First off, WE MISSED YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Second; he may like you. Guys are confusing. The flirting one day ignoring the next could be because his friends. Peer pressures a itch. If ya get what I'm sayin. lol What I say you do, pull him aside. Away from your friends and his. Talk to him. He already knows you like him, I'd say you deserve to know if your wasting your time or if he likes you back. Just don't let him hurt you. Oh, and, if he does like you back, tell him how you feel about all this thats goin on with the ignoring you thing.
Also, the friends thing... They may know something you don't. That may be why they told him. Or maybe they thought he'd ask you out if he knew you liked him. Who knows. Confront em though. Ask em if they told and if so, why. If they are truly your best friends, they will spill.
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~♥*Ren*♥~
Greenie
Umba's Cuddle Buddy
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Post by ~♥*Ren*♥~ on Jan 18, 2008 18:25:10 GMT -5
I missed you guys too! Thanks guys! Yea idk, today he would talk to me and he was flirting with me again! I think if he even does like me he likes more for looks or something because the day he ignored me was when I was just wearing my school team's basketball shirt and some jeans, but the days he flirts with me I'm wearing cute outfits like from Hollister and American Eagle, lol. idk. I confronted my friends and they looked me straight in the eye and said they didn't tell him. Maybe my friend Richele told him, because she said she was going to help me so he would ask me out? My friend Becca is still trying to convince him[she doesn't even know him in real life haha she's goes to a school 20 miles away from me]. So yea, guys are sooooo confusing! It's so hard to try not to like a guy though, ugh! lol Thank you Nikki! On Tuesday I'm going to try to talk to him it's gonna be hard though because he's usually ALWAYS with his friends and I know if I try to pull him aside from his friends he probably won't wanna go because trust me, Austin is freaking annoying haha! He'll go "ooh, lauren's going to ask zach out!" or something like that lol.When I was going out with a different boy, he used to always follow me around going "SO! How's Cody?" lol. ok i'm getting off the subject kinda. thanks guys ily!
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Post by FreeStyle08 on Jan 18, 2008 23:12:23 GMT -5
WELCOME BACK we all missed you.
but to get to this boy, from what you have told us I would say he likes you, becuase teenage boys will do that one minute all they can do is look at you and flirt the next they dont want any thing to do with you (you all should no that) and one minute he is trying to be like his freinds and tease you and ignore you what not but without his freinds hes all over you like a fly Righ?
so if you want to play that little game with him and get some of the kids off your back for a wile just play it cool and ignor him, Or you can confront him with it and see what happens.
now for me especialy if its a guy I dont like I will set them up and let him deal with all the kids teasing him.
but since you like him I wouldnt recomend doing that. i would recomind playing it cool for a wile and watch him see what he does. and then at some point try to talk to him that wont set you or him up for embaracement.
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Post by ~♥Jesus Freak♥~ on Jan 19, 2008 11:47:21 GMT -5
If his friend starts doin all that "ooohhh, Rens gonna ask him out" crap. Tell him to stop being immature, grow up and get a life. Outside of Zach's butt. lol. Putting it nicely.
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~♥*Ren*♥~
Greenie
Umba's Cuddle Buddy
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Post by ~♥*Ren*♥~ on Jan 19, 2008 12:17:42 GMT -5
lol Nikki! nice! haha. yeah he's pretty much the leader and all the other guys follow him around. and ignore my age on my profile lol im not 18! kansas should know! sorry that's random but just so you guys don't think i'm almost in college haha. Thanks JJ! I'll use that advice. I missed you too!
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Post by ~♥Jesus Freak♥~ on Jan 19, 2008 16:19:03 GMT -5
Exactly, so see, more the reason to add the "Outside of Zach's butt" part. lol!! ^.^
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Post by FreeStyle08 on Jan 19, 2008 20:26:33 GMT -5
Lol any time there ren. give are advice a try and let us know what happens.
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Post by ~♥Jesus Freak♥~ on Jan 19, 2008 22:10:31 GMT -5
Deffinately let us know what happens!!! <333
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-Irwin Girl-
Yearling
Pats lil Girl♥Gis' lil wonder child
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Post by -Irwin Girl- on Jan 20, 2008 9:32:54 GMT -5
yeah i know you're not almost in collge..unless you're stalking some kid!!O.o
tell moi how it goes!
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Post by ~♥Jesus Freak♥~ on Jan 20, 2008 9:48:56 GMT -5
Ok, what is with the "Moi"!?!?! Is that supposed to be me?!? I know this aint helpin my "I'm not the most confused anymore!!!!" story, but.... I'm confused. Is it "me"?
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Post by mia on Jan 20, 2008 11:23:31 GMT -5
Nikki, do you know ANY French at all?? Moi means me in french. I'm totally voting for you as most confused next year....
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Post by ~♥Jesus Freak♥~ on Jan 20, 2008 11:47:00 GMT -5
I totally knew that..... >.> Do you believe me?!?!?!
I know 1 word in french!!!! I can't spell it, but one of my Grandma's dogs is named it. Its Love!!! hehehehehe My sister named her. She's ugly.
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